For one South-East Asian family, the idea of a family holiday had always felt out of reach.
With four children ranging from young to teenage years, and a father diagnosed with young-onset dementia in his 30s, everyday life was already a challenge. In their local community, cultural stigma around dementia added another layer of isolation. Open conversations were rare, and support felt distant.
But recently, that changed.
Thanks to a supported holiday with Dementia Adventure, the family experienced something truly life-changing: their first ever break together — on the beautiful Isle of Wight.
Breaking Barriers
This holiday wasn’t just a change of scenery. It was a bold step towards connection, joy, and reclaiming family life.
None of the children had ever been on a family holiday before — only school trips. Financial strain, emotional stress, and stigma had made it nearly impossible. But Dementia Adventure’s team worked to remove those barriers, offering both practical support and a deep understanding of what the family needed to feel safe and supported.
A Tailored Experience
Every detail of the holiday was shaped around the family’s needs — from dietary preferences to mobility considerations, cultural sensitivity, and emotional well-being. The result? A holiday that didn’t feel like a compromise.
One of the most memorable moments was a thrilling ride on the Wet Wheels speedboat. Laughter echoed across the water as the family shared a rare, carefree moment — together. They also enjoyed cable car rides at The Needles, played crazy golf, and experienced their first steam train journey. These weren’t just activities; they were opportunities for bonding, healing, and joy.
“It’s like we had Dad back.”
The eldest child’s words captured the heart of the experience. The children saw their father not just as someone living with dementia — but as their dad again. For the younger siblings, it was the first time they could truly enjoy being with him like any other family on holiday.
Overcoming Challenges
Of course, the journey wasn’t without emotional weight. The children had been affected by bullying and the lack of open conversations about their father’s condition. But on this holiday, things were different.
“It’s hard when no one around you talks about dementia, and people don’t know how to help. But here, we didn’t have to explain anything. Everyone just got it. That made all the difference.”
The safe, inclusive atmosphere created by Dementia Adventure’s team and volunteers gave the family something they hadn’t felt in a long time — relief, understanding, and community.
A Lasting Impact
This holiday was more than a brief escape. It was a turning point.
The children returned home not just with souvenirs and stories, but with a renewed sense of identity — and hope. They were reminded that they are not defined by dementia, and that their dad is still here, still part of their lives in meaningful ways.
“We’re not thinking about what we’re losing anymore — we’re thinking about what’s still possible.”
Looking Ahead
Since their Isle of Wight trip, the family has continued to explore what’s possible. They took part in a Green Letter Day at Lord’s Cricket Ground with Dementia Adventure — another joyful experience filled with connection and new memories. Travel buddy Eleanor ensured a smooth journey from Reading, and therapy dog Poppy brought instant joy to the children, helping them build confidence and feel part of something bigger.
More Than a Holiday
This story isn’t just about one family. It’s a reflection of what’s possible when tailored support, understanding, and adventure come together.
At Dementia Adventure, we believe every family should have the opportunity to connect, explore, and create positive memories — regardless of diagnosis. With the right support, holidays can be more than a break — they can be life-changing.
“Without Dementia Adventure, people like us can only dream.”
